Fix Docker networking and add graceful MongoDB error handling

- Fix DNS resolution: Removed invalid dns_search configuration
- Add graceful MongoDB connection error handling
- Set restart policy to 'unless-stopped' for both services
- Add development helper scripts (start-dev.sh, stop-dev.sh)
- Update Docker Compose configurations for development
- Restore main.rs from git history
- Backend now logs MongoDB errors without crashing

All containers now start successfully with proper DNS resolution
on the dedicated normogen-network.

backend/src/main.rs.restore

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+fatal: path 'backend/src/main.rs' exists, but not 'src/main.rs'
+hint: Did you mean 'a316699:backend/src/main.rs' aka 'a316699:./src/main.rs'?